When your ex is dating someone else
Right now he knows that he has you under his thumb. To him, that’s just unnecessary “drama” and it turns him off because this guy lacks empathy.
In his mind, you are too hung up on him, too broken over the breakup to have a life of your own and he views that as desperate and pathetic weakness. I’m telling you that you absolutely must make him believe that you are completely over him. Pick ONE friend that you trust or better yet, stop yapping to your friends. You never know which “friend” will go tell the wrong “friend” of his that you’re struggling.
There was a time in my life when I did some things that were not so “loving”, and I write about this in my Dating Your Ex e Book.“If your ex is one of those “don’t-care”, too proud to beg or self-confident secure in themselves kind of people, not picking up the phone isn’t going to stop your ex from going to a movie, party or whatever they choose to do. I remember a few times saying things like “I miss you so much, please don’t do this to me” all the while laughing my heart out imagining how the other person was congratulating himself on the other side of the phone.
If you do not pick up the phone or reply to emails, life goes on. And the next time they catch you on the phone they will be like “Why didn’t you pick up the phone? One time I had a guy tell me “you don’t know what you got until it’s gone.” A few days later he started acting like “he was gone.” I had my Love Doctor instincts even back then, so I let him do his thing.
I’m being blunt because there is no time for sugar-coating.
You want to know how to get your ex boyfriend back now?
Begging for him back is the worst approach possible.Your thoughts will always seep out into your actions) and through your actions, you are essentially begging for him back.You have to take a step back, take a breath and vow to put an end to the crazy, an END to the insanity.I know that now, but back then, my thinking was “Play the Player!” But the more “I played the player” the angrier I got (with myself) because not only was I wasting my time (and blocking love), but I basically was doing the very thing that I resented in the other person.